Hi,
Chances are, at some point in your
life you've sat down and set goals.
You got excited, maybe created a plan,
and started taking action.
Then, the next thing you know,
your motivation is GONE and you're
struggling every step of the way.
And to make it worse you have
no clue why it's happening.
What's surprising is that you ARE NOT
the only one this is happening too.
In fact, this is EXACTLY what many
of my clients were experiencing!
I knew if I could figure this out,
I'd be able to help people get much
better results. So I sat down and
really thought about it...
And that's when it struck me.
The whole idea of "goals" are the problem.
Goals have that somewhat meaningless
"get there fast" mentality to them.
And sometimes goals get you so hyped up
for that future moment of achievement,
that you completely lose touch with
the present moment.
You've probably seen for yourself
that it can be very frustrating when
goals begin to feel more like chores.
And let's face it,
setting goals can even be SCARY.
Have you ever set a goal, and felt like
you're "locked in" and you can't give up,
because then you would be labeled a "quitter"?
After some more thinking, I realized...
"This idea seems totally flawed."
I mean, why would anyone want to struggle
while constantly dealing with the fear of
failing in the back of their mind just to get
to some future destination as fast as they can?
It just doesn't seem right.
And it also makes you wonder the point
of doing any of this in the first place.
It's pretty clear that when you start
questioning your motives, you lose excitement
and that burst of motivation you had in the
beginning starts to fade.
And we know that motivation is the MOST
important factor in achieving anything.
So Why Does This Happen When We Set Goals?
The reason this happens is because goals
draw their energy from the CONSCIOUS MIND.
The conscious mind is simply that rational,
logical part of you that chatters to yourself
througout the day.
It's the part of your brain that tries to
"figure things out" and find "reasons" for
why things happen... even when there aren't any.
Simply put, the biggest problem with using your
conscious mind to achieve goals is that your
conscious mind heavily relies on will power
to get things done.
And We Both Know Will Power Doesn't Last Very Long.
Sure, you can force yourself to set a goal,
and try your hardest to stick with it.
Maybe it will work. Maybe it won't.
The point is, the whole idea is just flawed.
Basically, you're fighting AGAINST your own
habits and going against the current.
And if you don't remove limiting beliefs
you cripple your chances of any future success.
Think About It.
Your brain has spent years learning
to do things a certain way.
You have your daily routine, and you're
pretty much set "on track" with where
your life is going.
Now, all of the sudden, you come along
with a goal & expect everything to change?
Sorry, but it just doesn't work that way.
No matter how much you try to push, fight,
or force yourself to succeed, your beliefs
will keep you right where you have always been.
That's Why You Must Change Them
The key is knowing how to change your beliefs
to support the dreams you want to achieve.
Basically, when you have the right beliefs
that SUPPORT your dreams, your daily habits
naturally fall into place, and you start heading
in the direction of your dreams automatically.
that reside in your subconscious mind.
subconscious mind is very powerful.
To prove it, just ask yourself this:
How often do you have to THINK about brushing
your teeth, taking a shower, driving to work,
making dinner, when to go to sleep, or when to wake up?
The answer is never. That's because your
subconscious mind handles ALL of this.
Wouldn't It Be Nice To Naturally &
Automatically Move In The Direction Of Your Dreams ?
You can when you know how to
properly "set" your dreams.
Once you know how to dream effectively,
by bringing out that childlike dreamer
inside you that believes anything is
possible and the sky is the limit,
you're naturally motivated to make it happen.
When your dream is set in your mind,
you find new meaning and a true sense
purpose to live it every.
As you pursue your dream, you're free from
"failure" because you aren't tied to strict
deadlines and exact specific outcomes.
Plus, if your dream is no longer important to
you, you can just scrap it. No big deal.
Because once your beliefs are in line with the
life you truly want, it's easier to make simple
course corrections since you know where you're going.
When you have a CLEAR idea of what dreams are
important to you, and believe from the START
that they are possible, than it's MUCH easier
to move towards them.
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to your success,
Jorma Persson
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